• PRO

    The reason I'm a feminist is that there is very little...

    Feminism is not misandry, but rather the belief in gender equality

    I do believe in the rights of men as well as the rights of women. The reason I'm a feminist is that there is very little sexism against men compared to sexism against women. The reason I'm a feminist is that there is very little sexism against men compared to sexism against women. Feminism focuses on the problems that women face rather than the problems that men face because men face very few problems, while women face many problems. Feminists want women to have the rights that men already have. By saying that equal rights for people of all genders should be upheld over the rights of a few women, you're ignoring the fact that men already have rights in nearly every place in the world. The same can not be said for women.

  • CON

    I don't know about you, but I'd much rather live in...

    On balance modern Feminism is beneficial to the modern United States.

    My apologies on the format, something happened to the site so I pasted from Microsoft Word... At least it still exists. I appreciate the kind words, Kasmic, and same goes to you. I like the way you debate and stay away from personal insults. I completely agree - ad hominem attacks are useless. Thanks for your opening arguments, I'll see if I have enough room to bring up my own after addressing yours. Economic Injustice So I found a census .pdf that explains the lack of "representation" for females in STEM occupations, however absolutely nothing regarding pay [1]. A lack of female dominance or "equal" employment of men and women has (most likely) nothing to do with an employer's discrimination, bias, sexism, etc. And I'd say (this makes sense) a lack of female representation is due to more males choosing to enter this field of work than females, as females tend to enter more "family" oriented positions, like child care, front of house type stuff, where they are pretty much guaranteed to keep this position. I also, for the life of me, could not find any statistics showing pay between men and women based on same job, same work experience, same age, and same education. I did however find a census .pdf that showed there is a 23% difference between men and women for the most part, but this has nothing to do with specific jobs [2]. When an employer pays a colleague more than another, what's the first thing that comes to mind? "He/she must be better at this job"? "He/she must have more experience"? "The boss must see more potential in this individual"? Either way you look at it, this reasoning makes sense, right? ...So why is it when as soon as a man gets paid more than a woman, everyone blames sexism and says there's no possible way a male can be paid more than a female other than blatant sexism? Why are work ethics, performance, willingness to advance in the company (or not), not taken into perspective when there is a difference in pay between males and females? Would it be possible women just generally don't excel as much as men do in jobs such as engineering or mathematics or technology, and excel more in jobs geared toward "natural female" jobs, such as child care, or jobs that require a personable personality? I found a "top 10" on Discovery.com related to 10 gender differences between men and women [3]. Most are whatever, but one really stood out, and that is that, according to research and studies, Men handle lack of sleep better than women do. This may sound like nothing, but in the long run, would you prefer someone (notice I didn't specify gender) who can work longer without getting burnt out? If you were an employer, you would - and that makes sense, and doesn't have anything to do with discriminating against a gender. According to KFF, approximately 20% of women live in poverty, whereas 18% of men do [4]. This 2% difference most likely has nothing to do with discrimination, and to say one group of people statistically have "worse" lives means there is discrimination or sexism or racism or whatever against that group would be ridiculous. On average, women don't have as well paying jobs or as well "respected" jobs as men? I can agree with that. However you would need to prove that this is directly related to blatant sexism, discrimination, etc against women. Did you forget upwards of 70% of the homeless population is male [5]? I don't know about you, but I'd much rather live in poverty and have a minimum wage job with no benefits than have no house or job and live on the streets. We could even argue that women have it better then men when it comes to "true" poverty. To conclude that because women have less paying jobs (even though men have a higher unemployment rate than women [6]), and a lower representation in higher paying jobs is a direct repercussion of discrimination or sexism is... well, unrealistic. Domestic Violence Although statistics show more women are victims of domestic violence than men, that difference isn't very large at all, as about 40% of domestic violence victims are male [7]. One difference between a guy hitting a girl and a girl hitting a guy is when a girl hits a guy, people laugh. People don't take it seriously. People brush it off and figure he can defend himself. And to be clear, yes, they do laugh, as you can see in this social experiment on YouTube [8]. People LAUGH when a girl is physically assaulting a guy. Men are known to be physically stronger than women, and have a more physically aggressive mentality, which is most likely the main reason more men assault women than the other way around, but hey, this has nothing to do with sexism. It's genetics. It's biology. It sucks, any crime sucks, but it is completely irrational and unrealistic to conclude that there is a relationship between male on female domestic violence and sexism/superiority. One in six men under the age of 18 have been physically sexually abused [9]. I know the following is a statistic from way up in Canada, but Canada and America aren't very different when you think about it; Men are physically assaulted a lot more than women - over three times more men are victims of aggravated assault than women [10]. This is regarding domestic violence however, and although it is clear women very well could be assaulted in a domestic relationship/environment more than men are, you have not shown how feminism can help, and you have not proved that this is even a case of sexism or a superiority complex or anything of that sort. Statistics are great, however you have not provided a correlation between domestic abuse and sexism. And if feminism is not solely a "sexism/equal rights" movement, then why doesn't feminism focus on all types of abuse instead of ones that favor/victimize women more than men? How feminism can help I completely agree 100% that feminism was needed at a time, and did help drastically with women's rights and safety, and it was completely necessary in the 20th century. However modern feminism is truly pushing it. I have been called a rapist by feminists (it doesn't matter if "true" feminists don't consider these women "true" feminists, what matters is "true" feminists still associate with these "fake" feminists, or "feminazis," by sharing the same name), because I've had sex with women who have had alcohol (while I have also consumed alcohol). I have been called a supporter of rape because I consider it wise to avoid dark alleys by yourself, wise to not dress extremely provocatively, or stumble around alone while under the influence of drugs/alcohol. The term rape culture is basically asking for women to have more rights than men; If a woman claims she was raped - she was. If a woman points at a man for rape - he did. If a woman is asked any normal questions carried out in crime investigations - these people are supporters of rape. Women (feminists) are asking for special treatment and more rights than men. When is it not appropriate for someone to ask what a man was wearing when he was assaulted? Maybe he was walking down the wrong neighbourhood dressed all in red, and he was assaulted by Crips. Maybe the way he was walking could be taken as an intimidation tactic. Maybe his expensive clothing could be taken as bragging about his money from selling drugs. Asking a victim of any crime facts has nothing to do with supporting their misfortune. It is simple criminal procedures. Also, you'd rather teach men not to rape than women to try and avoid sick animals who actually do rape? Why not teach people not to murder, steal, harass, extort, or commit any other illegal or hurtful activity? Because you can't. Some people's brains develop much differently than others, which ends up leading some people to harm others, either physically or mentally, or both. Feminism denies this, and thinks that it would make more sense to tell these people not to commit crimes than tell people to attempt to avoid these types of people who we really can't do a hell of a lot about. Prisons exist. The death penalty is still in use in some places. I'm sure knowing you'll rot in prison for dozens of years if not your entire life if you rape a girl is a better deterrent than feminists making blogs and ranting on tumblr (trying not to sound like a jerk, sorry if it comes off that way, I'm passionate about this subject). Here's an article about rape culture [10], which does have some legitimate points, but also contains ridiculous things such as, (I'm paraphrasing) "you support rape if you like the song 'blurred lines.' " My arguments have been dismissed by feminists because I am a man, and do not know what it's like to be a woman. It is clear feminism focuses more on women's issues than true equality. It also victimizes women to a new extreme. You were raped if you consumed any alcohol. You were raped if you did not give a definitive “yes.” You were sexually harassed if a guy looked at you in a way you didn’t like. And much more. My main problem with feminism is it A. Victimizes wR2;oR2;mR2;eR2;nR2; everyone. B. Separates the sexes. C. Breeds plenty extremists and holds a lot of inconsiderate, disrespectful, misandrist bigots. D. Categorizes men as rapists or supporters of rape, even if they aren't, through terms such as rape culture. Thanks, I'm looking forward to a great next round, and I hope you can address most, if not all, of my points. [1] http://www.census.gov... [2] http://www.census.gov... [3] http://news.discovery.com... [4] http://kff.org... [5] http://www.nationalhomeless.org... [6] http://www.bls.gov... [7] http://www.theguardian.com... [8] (See two videos) http://www.youtube.com... http://www.youtube.com... [9] https://1in6.org... [10] http://everydayfeminism.com...

  • CON

    in today's age women have the financial and physical...

    Feminism is currently helping us reach gender equality in 1st world countries

    Thank you for responding. Let's begin "Yes you made some good points" - Well thank you :) "https://answers.yahoo.com...... there is more men in prison then women but that does not mean that m=women want to view men as the higher race" - Well the evidence you brought up just says that men make up the vast majority of prison captives. 6.8% women and 93.2% men. Seems a little off doesn't it? Anyways the point you brought up was "but that does not mean that m=women want to view men as the higher race" That's a little confusing, but what I think you are trying to say is that this doesn't mean women see themselves as superiors to men. Well first of all I would like to point out a common but fundamental misunderstanding you have. I said before the feminist movement as a whole views men as inferiors. FeminismX00;women. I am not accusing women of anything, I have no problem with women, in fact I love them (literally), however I do have a problem with feminism. It seems the point you are trying to make is that despite these ridiculous female favored statistics, you are rejecting that females are favored in the court of law. It baffles me how anyone can believe this when the stat that 93.2% of prison inmates are men is right in front of them. I can speak from my and others personal experience, men and women can be equally violent, fraudulent and criminal. With that being the case how can we reasonably have 93.2% of prison inmates being men. Surely people should be able to see that there HAS to be bias for that start to be true. If you still don't believe me let me drop some statistics. 1. Men receive 63% longer sentences than women for simply being men- http://www.law.umich.edu... 2. Men are 165% more likely to be convicted than men when they do the exact same crime- http://permutationofninjas.org... . If you take these statistics into account you absolutely can't deny that men are disadvantaged in the court of law. "Women should have equal rights and opportunities" I completely agree I am egalitarian and believe in equality for all humans. " but don't, http://www.forbes.com...... this website shoes the ratio of men to women in college and shows women are way more advanced in the field of education but still men are given more chances." Now this I am going to disagree with. If you click on the link what the statistic shows is that the ratio of men to women in college is quickly become a ratio with much more women than men. That's right. Women are actually getting more college level education than men. "shows women are way more advanced in the field of education but still men are given more chances" This, well. This just isn't true or backed up by anything. Nothing in the article says or supports this. You say men are given more opportunities without really backing it up with anything. In fact I would argue that the exact opposite is the case. For example take this into account. If you read this article females are preferred in the education system: http://www.hookingupsmart.com... . If you look read this article it talks about the barriers men face in university that women are immune to: http://www.the-american-interest.com... . "in today's age women have the financial and physical abilities to survive" they have every single ability to support themselves."but have not been given enough opportunity's" No. They have been given every single opportunity society has to offer, they just don't take them. In fact I am going to argue they have many more opportunities than men, they just don't take them. If you watch this video - http://www.avoiceformen.com... you will see that women are actually PREFERRED in stem jobs over men for no reason other than being men. As I stated before they have every single opportunity to take high paying jobs to support themselves. "Women in society today are seen as equal." Except by many feminists who see women as superior. "Women have the ability to be in the top 6 but have not been given that path to take." The first part is right. They completely have the ability to make it to the top of society. The second part is wrong. They are given the path to take, and they are given every opportunity to take that path. They just don't. Overall you have dropped my many points of how feminism has harmed society and how the movement has been detrimental to gender equality. A lot of what you have failed to do is prove that feminism itself is helping. All you have done is state that women are disadvantaged in some places, yet oddly you selected examples of places where they are given the upper hand. Moving on. Feminists defend their movement when someone brings up the issues men face is by saying either 1. That feminism helps men's issues by destroying stereotypes. 2. That men's issues are completely separate from female issues. One analogy I heard was "that's like saying someone who cured breast cancer hates the effort to cure lung cancer". Well the reason why both of these defenses are simply wrong is because feminism doesn't just help solve men's issues or do nothing about them. Instead it makes the problem worse and the movement as a whole tries to stop anything from being done about male issues. For example, consider this article/video: http://www.avoiceformen.com...... In this video there is a woman who talks about her efforts to bring awareness to men's issues is shut down and censored by Feminists. Clearly Feminism, as a whole, is not helping us solve men's issues. As I stated before it is making the problem worse. Now a lot of people (probably feminists) will refute this and say "Well not all feminists are like that"or "They aren't true feminists". The thing is I am asking the question of whether the movement as a whole is helping society, not if all feminists are bad. Also the thing about saying they are not true feminists is that people like them represent the face of feminism. They are usually the ones who control the policy in place, they control the movements and they control what the movement actually changes. A perfect example of how feminist policy has hurt society and driven us further from equality can be found here: http://www.avoiceformen.com...... . This article by Karen Straughan talks about how once domestic violence (Let's us DV for short) started getting public attention there were two main approaches to solve the problem. One of them saw it as gender neutral. This was lead by a woman named Erin Pizzey. She founded the first battered women's shelter. What she found while running her shelter was 60% of the women were as violent or even more violent than the men they were fleeing. And then there's the second approach, the feminist one. This model says that men are always the violent ones and are beating their partners to oppress them and to make their partners fear them. This model is based on what is called "patriarchy theory". This model became entrenched and seen as the most common and correct model by law enforcement, social workers and judges. This model is adopted by many of the 1st world, western countries including the US, Canada and the UK. In other words this model is the status quo. Despite being seen as the model that fits almost every case of domestic violence, in reality, it makes up the smallest minority of cases. The feminist model overtook the more benevolent model ran by Erin Pizzey, despite Pizzey's model being far more accurate and helpful. The feminist model has resulted in male victims of DV being seen as a joke and offered little to no help. Feminism did not help the issue. Feminism made the problem worse. Feminism is not helping 1st world countries reach gender equality, hence the resolution. As Karen Straughan put it, "If society was feminists, and blacks were men, they would scream ever louder that blacks are the primary offenders and that other races almost never commit such crimes, that the crime itself stems from "toxic, hegemonic blackness", they would ignore the evidence, suppress the evidence, intimidate or shun researchers who produce the evidence, engage in threats of violence against researchers who publish the evidence, and continue their attempts to entrench their view of blackness being integral to said crime into legislation and policy." To put what she said in other words: The way feminists view men and women in DV is dangerously similar to how racist whites view blacks in crime in a way that justifies systematic oppression. The women Erin Pizzey I recently talked about was terrorized by Feminists for questioning their model and saying it was wrong. She was protested and threatened by Feminists. She had to have a police escort where ever she went because of Feminists. She was instructed to have her mail re-directed to the bomb unit to ensure her house would not be blown to smithereens. The result of this terror peaked when her family dog was shot. As a result she fled the country. All of that just for saying women can be just as violent as men and that Feminists are wrong. Just for saying men can be victims too she was terrorized to the point of her fleeing the country. Countless Feminists view men as monsters and women as the princesses that need to be rescued from their violent captors. They reject the evidence and suppress those who speak out against them. As a result of Feminist policy men have been denied the rights as people, just because they are men. So allow me to conclude, Feminism is not helping us reach gender equality in 1st world countries because feminism itself does not treat the genders equally. Feminism treats women as the superior while Feminism treats men as sub-human monsters. Does that sound like equality to you?

  • PRO

    Boys are just as vulnerable as girls. ... Feminism is NOT...

    Feminism is no longer beneficial to our modern society

    Thanks con. I understand that your data is from 2010 and that still makes it five years behind. You could get data from this year, and the information could be easily manipulated as most companies don't reveal their employee pay rates. America has an unpaid 12 week maternity leave according to Wikipedia which isn't a lot compared to other countries but is still something not offered to their male co workers. Again, the data can not be confirmed and therefore shouldn't be your main argument or even an argument. Parental leave is different from maternity leave. Yes, I was only rebutting an argument and even if feminist groups redefined rape, it still doesn't prove my point wrong. Boys are just as vulnerable as girls. I know, a lot of people oppose feminism but usually they are simply considered sexist or trolling. The republican party isn't that anti feminist. AND they lost quite a few elections Sources... Well, brainwashing really wasn't a good word but you do realise that most feminists are women and most women are feminists. Again, if you want to prove me wrong you can just go ahead and ask every women you see whether they are feminists. They are still majority. And yes, they are quite close minded, at least the ones I have see. It seems like they would not consider any other ideology and dismiss any attempt proving them wrong as trolling. And what is MRA? This is voting period so I am not going to add anything. Boys are just as vulnerable as girls. I know, a lot of people oppose feminism but usually they are simply considered sexist or trolling. The republican party isn't that anti feminist. AND they lost quite a few elections Sources... Well, brainwashing really wasn't a good word but you do realise that most feminists are women and most women are feminists. Again, if you want to prove me wrong you can just go ahead and ask every women you see whether they are feminists. They are still majority. And yes, they are quite close minded, at least the ones I have see. It seems like they would not consider any other ideology and dismiss any attempt proving them wrong as trolling. And what is MRA? This is voting period so I am not going to add anything. Feminism is NOT beneficial to our modern society.

  • PRO

    I accept this debate. Resolved: Feminism creates pseudo...

    Feminism creates pseudo problems and is nowhere near as relevant as Feminists claim it is

    I accept this debate. Resolved: Feminism creates pseudo problems and is nowhere near as relevant as Feminists claim it is Pseudo -- "not actually but having the appearance of; pretended; false or spurious; sham." [1. http://tinyurl.com...] Problem -- "a question proposed for solution or discussion." [2. http://tinyurl.com...] Because I am PRO, I will be arguing in favor of this resolution. CON will try to refute this resolution. I will now point out why this debate is already over. CON states, "In this day in age, I have been noticing a few feminists creating a series of pseudo-problems such as "there aren't enough women in video games" when clearly these 'problems' have simple answers." He has conceded that feminism has created pseudo-problems. He goes on to make the same statement upon concluding: "These constant streams of pseudo problems and duplicitous claims leads me to the conclusion that Feminists are simply trying to find anything to latch on to, victimizing themselves in the most bizarre ways imaginable in order to stay relevant." He again repeats that feminism creates, as he says, "pseudo problems" and that feminists are essentially desperate to stay relevant, from which we draw the view that feminism isn't nearly as relevant as feminists would have you think. At this point, the debate ia already over. CON has already conceded the debate and backed my position. For fun, I will address the rest of his arguments and explain how they also further the position I am defending as PRO. CON states, "video game designers are catering to the majority in order to make a profit and not to 'oppress' women. What exactly is to be gained financially by appealing to the demands of the minority of your customer base? Causes like this are near pointless due to the fact they are overanalyzed until they become a direct threat and/or threat against women." CON concedes that the problem he claims that feminists cite -- not enough women in video games -- is merely to make a profit and is a matter of business savvy, not of oppressing woman. He claims that this is a pointless cause which is overanalyzed and sensationalized to virtually no end. This is a position in support of my position because women in video games is a pseudo-problem, and CON admits to this. Wage Gap Con states, "Moving on to women in the workplace, Feminists will argue that for every $1.00US a man makes a woman will make $0.80US. However, these same feminists fail to point out the fact that men typically do not quit their jobs to raise a family, are less likely to work part time, are more likely to go into a career path in which one is expected to perform laborious activities in extremely strenuous conditions, and are more likely to retire at a elderly age thereby getting the benefit of seniority. These factors are completely left out to make it seem as if the female population is being oppressed within the working environment. It is up to the individual to choose what career pathway they work in and due to the fact that many women prefer fields that do not require strenuous work or physical labor, naturally, they will be making less money than their male counterparts. Feminism cannot force women into fields that they do not wish to work in." Of course, every single point here, from "feminists fail to point to the fact...[...]" down is an argument in favor of my position. He explains that the "equal pay for equal work" argument is merely a sham -- a pseudo-problem -- and there are a number of factors that feminists have discounted. This is obviously an argument in favor of my position. I would like to expand on this argument regarding this by backing it up with some epirics. Economist Stephen Moore says the following, essentially saying the same thing that CON has said: "President Obama uses the figure of 77 cents earned by a woman for every dollar earned by a man. But that is a comparison of all women with all men (and even Mr. Obama’s own economists say a woman earns 81 cents for every dollar earned by her male counterpart). In fact, a 2009 Labor Department study found that, when we control for work experience and education, the gap is only about 5 percent. And when we account for the fact that men are more likely to be injured or suffer an accident on the job, and do riskier work and often more unpleasant jobs than women, the gap virtually disappears." [3. http://tinyurl.com...] Moore pointed to a 2009 study from the Department of Labor which note shtat, if we control for work and education, the vast majority of the gap dissipates. If we add in on-the-job risk, the gap essentially dissipates. This makes the wage gap a "pseudo problem." Moore went on to point out that, among surveys of recent college graduates, there there is virtually no pay discrepancy. He calls this notion of a gender-pay gap "as outdated as bell-bottom jeans" -- in other words, a pseudo problem. Moore goes on to say, the following, calling this issue a distraction from the real problem which is falling pay generally speaking, even though female pay hasn't following as much as male pay: "Gender gaps in pay are also a distraction from the other real financial problem, which is declining pay for almost all groups. Between 2009 and 2012, every racial group and both genders have done worse. Actually, women’s paychecks have fallen slightly more than men’s in this phony recovery." [3. http://tinyurl.com...] Therefore, the wage gap is indeed a pseudo-problem. Abortion CON states, "Regardless of your opinions about the morality of this subject, Feminists constantly argue that this is a woman's rights issue. However, the legality of aborting a human fetus has never been a woman's rights issue; it has always been a human's rights issue and about determining whether or not it is moral to kill a unborn child due to personal choices and/or financial reasons. Feminism is not needed to determine this." CON again affirms my position! Abortion is not a matter of feminism or women's rights; it's a matter of people, especially people with deeply-held religious beliefs who believe that abortion is murder, fighting for whom they consider to be the most vulnerable among them. They feel as though they have an obligation to protect those people. It is not about oppressing women, but about protecting human life. CON completely concedes this point. It's also possible to address abortion as a "pseudo-problem" from a different angle; one could say that, given the current composition of the court and the current legality of abortion, there is almost no way -- especially with a pro-choice Democratic president -- that Roe v. Wade would be overturned. Therefore, clamoring over abortion is a "pseduo problem" because there isn't a high likelihood at all that it will actually be banned. And even in the off-chance that Roe is overturned, it would simply return to the states, the vast majority of which would keep it legal. Sexual Violence CON once again made the point for me: sexual violence is a very big problem -- that doesn't, of course, refute the resolution, because as long as I can prove that feminism creates pseudo problems (I have done so), it holds, and sexual violence exists independent of feminism, anyway -- but the feminist solution, which is largely a fallacy of composition presuming that men are ipso facto bad is simply wrong and unproductive, and telling people "not to do X" isn't necessarily going to stop them. A broader, more comprehensive solution is needed and we need a more open dialogue, rather than a diatribe against an entire group of people just because they happen to be male. Sexual violence also occurs against men [4. http://tinyurl.com...]. Why don't they bring it up? Relevancy CON has already conceded this point, as well, but I'm going to address it further. There's been some polling on this subject, and we know that about 72% of Americans do NOT identify as feminists [5. http://tinyurl.com...]. Moreover, only 18 percent of men and 38 percent of women accept the label. If we look at the Baby Boomer generation, only 41 percent identify as feminists. Only 28 percent of women over 65, only 42 percent of millenials, and only 32 percent of Gen X women identify as feminists. The poll was clear about how Americans view feminism as well: "It is negative associations people carry regarding feminism that causes Americans to shy away from the label. People are twice as likely to consider calling someone a feminist to be an insult (23 percent) rather than a compliment (12 percent)." [5.http://tinyurl.com...]. People do not view feminism fondly. Despite the fact that some would argue that feminism is only about equality, this is a flat-out distortion, and the vast plurality of the American public does not share such a view. They see it as an insult, and believe that the way we solve this issue is to work together rather than alienate and attack each other. Feminism is therefore irrelevant. Conclusion As I pointed out earlier, CON has already conceded the debate. I am PRO, and therefore am affirming the resolution. As CON, he needs to negate the resolution. He has failed to do so.

  • PRO

    Today, a stay-at-home mother is viewed as a kind of...

    2nd wave and 3rd wave/modern feminism is harmful and should not exist.

    Gender equality by definition harms men, women, families and society. The bottom line, says Venker, is that, "Feminism has sabotaged women's happiness." Worse, she adds, it's flipped male-female relationships upside down. Just one example: Men more than ever are seeking love, marriage and kids while women want independence. As Schlafly's niece, Venker grew up seeing an alternative view to mainstream feminists views on TV and in the media. Now as a mother in Missouri, she's trying to help her aunt highlight what conservatives feel is wrong with feminism and to build a new understanding between men and women. The book is controversial, especially in liberal circles, for lines like this: "Unfortunately, once feminism came along, women abandoned their pedestal in droves and decided they wanted to share the man's pedestal with him. They claimed they wanted both sexes on the same pedestal to represent equality and prove men and women are the same. Instead, they found themselves in conflict. Since there isn't enough room on a pedestal for both of them, feminists pushed men off to make room for themselves." She added, "That's not equality. That's matriarchy." On sex: "Sex is a problem, too. More and more wives today say they're too tired for sex. ...Naturally, this poses a problem for husbands, who are rarely too tired for sex. Sex is a man's favorite past time, and the wives who are too tired to have it are often resentful of this fact. If change is going to come, it will have to come from women"they are the ones who changed the natural order of things. Moreover, men aren't the ones who kvetch about their place in the world"not because they have it so great, contrary to feminist dogma, but because it's not in their nature. Men tend to go along with whatever women say they need." The duo have also raised concerns about Palin calling herself a conservative feminist. "You can't be both," says Venker, who adds that Palin is "confusing" conservatives by calling herself a feminist. Mainstream media and liberal politicians and pundits also take a big hit, blamed for promoting feminism. They are especially critical of the "feminist elite" including Oprah, first lady Michelle Obama, CBS anchor Katie Couric, and Arianna Huffington. "What these women have in common is clout, and they believe they know that's best for women," they write, adding: "The problem is that the majority of women in this country don't have the power"feminists do. And feminists influence liberals as well as conservatives to confirm to the feminist message." From the book and our recent interview, Whispers has pulled this list: Five Ways That Feminism Has Ruined America 1. It hurt marriage. Women want to wait so that they can keep their identities longer and men are finding easy sex, taking away a big reason for marriage. 2. Undermines child rearing. More kids are in childcare where discipline is lax resulting in a "epidemic" of bad kids, childhood obesity, and bullies. 3. Two-income trap. With both husband and wife working it's hard to live without life's luxuries. 4. Undermines college sports. Title IX has ended many male-only sports at some colleges. 5. Emasculates men. It's better to be a wuss than speak up or mouth off and face charges of harassment or chauvinism. Today, a stay-at-home mother is viewed as a kind of second-class woman. In fact, feminists do not even view stay-at-home mothers as persons. This derogatory view began with Betty Friedan. "[V]acuuming the living room floor"with or without makeup"is not work that takes enough thought or energy to challenge any woman"s full capacity. Down through the ages man has known that he was set apart from other animals by his mind"s power to have an idea, a vision, and shape the future to it. " [W]hen he discovers and creates and shapes a future different from his past, he is a man, a human being" (The Feminine Mystique). The basic idea of feminism was that women should have a choice to go to the workplace and become less animal-like. What does that make a stay-at-home mother? Since being a wife and mother was supposedly glorified in the 1950s, the women"s movement fought to demote that role to the lowest level possible. Many impressionable young women wholeheartedly believed this 1960s philosophy. Unfortunately, this feminist teaching has planted deep roots in the consciousness of American women. The feminist tree has blossomed. Today, it is considered a great shame to be a wife and mother only. In fact, being a wife and mother is synonymous with the meaningless life of a lower, uneducated class of people. What are today"s fruits of this philosophy? The fight for women"s rights has actually turned into a fight against the family. Even the mothers of modern feminism admit that radical feminists have worked hard to repudiate the family. Feminist Stephanie Coontz, history professor at the Evergreen State College in Olympia, Wa., wrote in the Washington Post, "We cannot afford to construct our social policies, our advice to our own children and even our own emotional expectations around the illusion that all commitments, sexual activities and caregiving will take place in a traditional marriage" (May 1). You don"t have to read between the lines to understand that such thinking is destroying the traditional family! It is within the Anglo-American world that feminism has been embraced the most passionately. These countries also have the highest divorce rates in the world, and are producing record numbers of fatherless children"which in turn creates many other social problems. Robert Sheaffer writes, "One can try to argue that the U.S. family died of natural causes at precisely the same time feminists began shooting at it, but after examining the depth and ferocity of the feminist attack against women"s roles as wives and mothers, such an argument fails to convince" (Feminism, the Noble Lie). Let"s own up to it: Feminism has caused some tragic results for the family. If we are going to fix our social problems, we must recognize that feminism has led our Western families into serious crises. Here is how it happened. Although many young women answered the call to pursue a career, they could not deny their natural desire for a husband and children. Many then opted to have a husband, children and a career. Realizing that certain feminine desires could not be denied, a new movement slogan was quickly pushed into public view""having it all." This slogan lives on. But it ignores a hard reality for many working mothers: Having it all also means handling it all. Working career mothers were forced into a high-stress rat race. Having it all was supposed to be fulfilling, but it was not. Now, almost four decades later, women find they are not any closer to finding true, satisfying fulfillment. For some, "having it all" has meant losing it all. The truth is, working mothers suffer. The children of working mothers always suffer. And should we forget"the husband suffers too. Severe fatigue plagues many working mothers. Balancing career, marriage and child care is an impossible task. Few can actually do it all. To do it all, corners have to be cut. Unfortunately, because of feminist peer pressure, marriage and family are sacrificed before career. Many two-career marriages have crumbled. Children have been left at home alone. Can we begin to see the harm that working motherhood has done to families? Our society of working mothers is a disaster. Experts agree that the industrial revolution produced families with absentee fathers. Now feminism has given us families with absentee mothers. What does this mean? Essentially, our children are growing up alone. It is estimated that as many as 60 percent of American children do not have full-time parental supervision. Think about it. If children are blessed enough to be in a two-parent home, generally they still have both parents working outside the home. The children are left home alone. If the family is run by a single parent, that parent (whether male or female) is working. Again, the children are home alone. This means our youth are growing up with an ever-dwindling amount of parental love, nurturing and supervision. The average latchkey child (a child returning home after school with no parent to greet him) is alone three hours per day. Some of these children are as young as 8; most are in their teens. When we think about parents arriving home after a difficult day at the office, we can logically surmise that there is not much quality time left for the child. All children and teens fundamentally need acceptance, praise, teaching and discipline. Children need to be taught right from wrong. Children need to learn how to be successful. This requires experience and activities. These needs are best met by parents. If these needs are not met at home, children have no other choice than to look elsewhere. This makes our children frustrated, angry and vulnerable to many dangers. http://www.usnews.com... http://www.huffingtonpost.com... a1. I have provided proof. a2. Your statement of her helping veterans had nothing to do with feminism. a3. I have provided proof that men are the overwhelming majority of rape victims. Actually yes it does have something to do with VAWA. a3-5. it shows that youth report sexual abuse from female staff. Feminists fight against men being able to be raped and women being able to rape or go to jail at all. My opponent has a burden of proof as they have not provided any evidence that these wave of feminism is not harmful and should exist.

  • CON

    Not only that, but Pro effectively conceded the debate by...

    New Western Feminism is pointless and oppresive.

    Resolution: Pro has undertaken to prove that feminism is 1. "pointless," 2. "focuses only on the supremacy of women," and 3. "oppresses the right of freedom of speech." Pro must establish all three points to win this debate, but Pro failed to establish any of them. Not only that, but Pro effectively conceded the debate by establishing that the Equality Canada feminist group is concerned with advancing "education, gender equality, reason and science," "collaboration between groups that discuss gender equality," "consciousness raising activities, to do with equality," and "the taboo subjects of gender equality." (Emphasis added.) We now enter the final round, in which new arguments are not to be entertained. Pro should not introduce new arguments; if he does introduce new arguments, voters should ignore them. Therefore, all seven points should go to Con: S&G for obvious reasons. Conduct because Pro tried to shift the burden of proof, and because Pro forfeited a round. Persuasion because (1) Pro failed to establish any of the three points that he undertook to establish, (2) because---even though it was not necessary since Pro had the burden of proof---Con established that two of those points were false, and (3) because Pro himself established (with his Equity Canada agument) that two of his points were false. Sources for obvious reasons.

  • CON

    Therefore, it would be good for some feminists to stay...

    The west doesn't need feminism, it needs to move

    Thanks for the opportunity to debate. I assume the argument is that we don't need feminism because equality, etc has been reached and there is a far greater need for advocacy for women in other countries. When we talk about feminism, I am thinking about it in terms of campaigning for women's rights. I would argue that it is still needed in the West {as well as elsewhere}. As well as the more well known issue of a pay gap there is a promotion gap. https://www.businessinsider.com.au... There is the issue of domestic violence and how female victims continue to be treated. https://overland.org.au... Yes, it possible that men can {and do campaign on these issues too} and that women that don't call themselves feminist can also help address these issues. I would argue that having more not less people campaigning to address these issues is a good thing. Therefore, it would be good for some feminists to stay active in the West. A strong feminist movement in the West can also help people elsewhere. This is a list containing some Western based women"s groups that through the funding they receive in the West can support those overseas http://www.nytimes.com... There is also the serious issue of sexual assaults against women and the backward views held by men {and some cases women} that come up in court and elsewhere. I do agree however that there should be a greater focus on the plight of women in other countries like widows and women in Saudi Arabia, etc. I just don't think all feminists should move because there is still issues here that need to be addressed.

  • PRO

    However, overly extremist feminists are taking their...

    American Feminism is Going too Far

    American feminism is a force to be reckoned with nowadays. I myself am a woman and believe all people should be treated fairly regardless the gender, size, shape, color, ethnicity, etc. However, overly extremist feminists are taking their freedom for granted thus making the rest of us women have an angry spoiled appearance compared to the many of oppressed, voiceless women in counties such as Iran or Palestine. Many women nowadays are asking for way too much, like higher wages for lesser jobs, and "freeing the nipple" because they think it isn't fair that men get too. Frankly put, women and men are not the exact same people, otherwise there would be no genders. It's much too late in the game for women to push their limits on dress codes and over expectation. I say, things are good the way they are now at least in the states. Places that should be helped are those such that have women suffering to stay alive. Not knowing that the next day they could be killed because a few strands of hair was showing. Bottom line, I'm fortunate as are so many fellow women in this country. We have the ability to do everything a man does and that for a lot of people is enough.

  • CON

    But to claim that second and third wave feminism have...

    Second-wave and third-wave feminism have, all in all, detrimentally affected the USA.

    As much as I am disappointed to see the debate end before it begins, I do at least appreciate my opponent letting us know he has decided to drop out. I considered posting arguments in support of Second and Third wave feminism just for the sake of it, but at this point I feel it would be a needless expenditure of energy and time on my part. Given that I was to take the con position, I was preparing to simply defend the position that second and third wave feminism have not caused more harm than good in the United States. It seems clear to me that the burden of proof was on Pro in this debate to demonstrate that they have been, all in all, detrimental to the country. I will say that second wave feminism fought for, and gained, legal protections against gender based employment discrimination as well as equal pay for men and women. Third wave feminism, which admittedly is more nebulously defined due to its contemporary nature, has made gender based violence a central theme and aided in bringing that topic to the national dialogue. I have a difficult time seeing how either of these 'waves' can be seen as being "all in all" detrimental to the United States. I was not coming here with the intention of claiming that the effects of feminism have been wholly good, and even less to defend the idea that ALL feminists are good. But to claim that second and third wave feminism have been "all in all" detrimental to the country was a rather large claim which obviously cannot be taken at face value without argument. Unfortunately it seems as if we will not be hearing that argument. Whatever my opponent's reasons for retiring from DDO may be, I wish him nothing but the best in the future.