Modern Feminism is Necessary
Thanks, soda. So like I said, I'll argue against your points and then bring up my
own. Sexual Objectification Let me start out by saying humans are sexual creatures.
We are attracted to people of the opposite (or occasionally same) sex. A man looking
at you in a sexual way, or a woman looking at a man in a sexual way (yes, women can
think of men in a sexual way too) is a.) not a bad thing, and b.) not sexist, nor
something we need to fight against. With all that being said, I noticed your points
aren't really about men or women looking at each other simply in a sexual way, so
thanks for that. However, you go on to say that by using attractive PEOPLE in ads,
it promotes the dehumanization of women. So I have a couple things to say about this.
First of all, there are many ads that use an attractive man (sometimes just in his
underwear) to sell a product. Here is a pretty good example of that: Although there
are more ads that contain scantily-clad women over men, it's silly to deny that there
are also ads that "sexualize" men in order to sell their products. So this means,
by your own logic, that all humans are just dehumanizing each other, as we use male
and female bodies to sell products. I have a couple things to say about this: 1.)
How does this affect you? I'm looking at the ad beside this text right now, and I
think to myself "huh, I wonder if that Air Freshener is any good." What I don't think
is "huh, this ad is over-sexualizing the male body and is dehumanizing this man by
using his body as nothing more than an object and something to look at." And even
if I did think that... it's not affecting me. It's obviously his choice to participate
in this ad, and I'm sure he's quite happy with it - he's able to show off his body,
get some attention, get some money, and become somewhat popular. The company hiring
this guy isn't "dehumanizing" him by paying him money to model beside an air freshener
to catch the eyes of women. They aren't saying "you're less than a human because you're
attractive and use your attractiveness to get attention and sell products." Anyway,
the same situation, but with a woman, doesn't affect you. It's her choice to look
pretty to sell something. And if it does affect you, I'd like to know how. 2.) The
word "objectification" needs to go. An object is not something you have sex with.
I wouldn't have sex with a lamp. I wouldn't have sex with a guitar. I wouldn't have
sex with a chapstick (unless I was drunk). By saying you're "objectifying" them is
actually discouraging people from joining fields like modeling, acting, etc. And the
first objective of feminism was to empower women and let them know they can do whatever they want with their
lives? As long as it isn't "looking attractive," you can do what you want. On top of that, this isn't going to change how I view women. People won't see a Carl's Jr. ad(amazing burgers by the way), and think "wow, those
hot women are holding Burgers! I value women as less than men now! I now only see
women as something to have sex with!" ...This wouldn't (and doesn't) happen. My other
point is regarding nipples. Check out the graph below. Areas in green represent places
that completely allow women to go topless. Orange is relaxed laws, and it's illegal
for women to be topless in red areas [1]. So, this shows that in 100% of Canada, and
more than 90% of America, it is not illegal for women to be topless. Although there
is that small 10% in America, there is a pretty good argument behind the reason female
breasts are frowned upon being shown in public: sexual stimulation. Studies have shown
that the female nipple lights up and reacts with the same area of the brain as the
clitoris does [2]. So this means that the female breasts are technically a sexual
organ. So we have two options; treat the breasts the same as any other sexual organ
and cover them up, or fight to uncover the clitoris as well, as it shares a common
function with the nipples. If you believe the nipples should be free, so should the
clit. So let's sum this up real quick. Men and women are both sexualized in TV, as
humans are sexual creatures. It's up to the person offering their body to make a decision
regarding how they make their money, it's not up to you. "Objectification" just doesn't
work, as nobody (not many people, anyway) wants to have sex with an object. And the
female nipples are equivalent to the clitoris, so covering them up isn't "unfair,"
but it is "sexualizing," as they are sexual organs. ...Which isn't a bad thing. Where
I live, I've seen maybe two topless women at public beaches in my whole life. Slut
Shaming This is another situation that actually also affects men. Men are called players
(and other terms I can't use here) for sleeping with many women. It's generally frowned
upon for anyone to sleep with a lot of different people. With that being said, I agree
that people should be able to sleep with as many people as they want, however feminism isn't going to do anything about mean people. There will always be a name that people
will come up with for someone that they disagree with. If I call Mike a "dick," am
I suggesting penises are bad? If someone calls you a slut for sleeping with a lot
of people, you ignore them, as they're a mean person and will find something else
to call you anyway, and go on with your day. Feminism isn't going to magically stop all the mean people from existing. If they don't chastise
one of your behaviors, they'll chastise another. "A man's virginity is seen as nothing,
a woman's virginity has extreme importance to her." And you find a way to twist this
into "women are oppressed"? It's scientifically proven that (I don't want to get into
detail) if not stimulated correctly, it does hurt the first time a girl has sex [3].
To ensure they have a good time and aren't hurt (physically or emotionally), it's
recommended that girls take pride in the person they lose it to. It's not only more
emotionally meaningful to women than men [4], it's more uncomfortable/painful. So,
to sum this bit up, we see that men and women are both "slut shamed," by being called
mean words for having sex. We also see that these are just words, and to take offence
to these words is silly. Society as a whole doesn't believe it's bad to have sex with
many people, and the media sure doesn't promote against it. It's just a few people
that are mean to begin with who will call you out on anything anyway. Double Standards
I'm actually not quite sure where you get this idea that people think women who are
in positions of power are looked at as pushy or bitchy. Almost every TV show or movie
or book I read, a woman who is in power pretty much kicks the hell out of all the
guys. Hell, most women in most media are portrayed as better than men. What I mean
by this, especially in action movies, sure there are more men than women, however
the women jump in, guns blazing, showing up the men, saying some cheesy "let the girls
play now" line to make the men look weak, etc. Bosses being called bitchy or annoying
or anything happens to both men and women. There just isn't a gender-exclusive word
for men. With that being said, there are plenty of negative gender-exclusive words
for men. And again, I have to reiterate my point that women in the media, whether
in positions of authority or not, are often looked at as badass and able to show up
the men. In fact, it's often men who are portrayed as clumsy, stupid, weak, etc. To
quickly add one more thing to this, that whole "ban bossy" campaign that was going
around a while ago was absolute rubbish. If being called a mean word deters you from
entering a career path you want, maybe you weren't really fit out for that career
to begin with. Someone who gives up after being called a bad word (happens to everybody)
probably wouldn't have been that beneficial anyway. Alright, I don't want to take
up too much space, so I'm jumping in to why I think feminism is a bad thing. I'm going to skip the fact that the wage gap is a myth and show that
feminism spreads lies and is dangerous to women. Victim Blaming This whole idea of "slut shaming"
and "victim blaming" suggests that women should wear what they want, do what they
want, and act how they want, and in the end not expect any negative repercussions.
Now I agree that it would be fabulous to live in a crime-free world, but that is unrealistic
and currently is not the case, so it is smart and safe for men and women to take precautions
while walking around alone, or in general. To suggest that women should be able to
do what they want and not suffer consequences is asking for special treatment, as
well as superiority. There aren't "theft walks" with people saying we should be able
to wear what we want and not fear getting mugged. Same goes for other forms of crimes
(that surprisingly primarily effect men). Feminists are only asking for *more* rights
when it benefits women. This is not a positive/equal thing. Feminism Spreads Lies Like I said earlier with the wage gap, there are "statistics" that feminists
present as fact, that aren't actually fact. Primarily the "1 in 5 women are raped"
nonsense. Not only are almost all of these "statistics" taken from surveys [5], and
not factually based with evidence at all, they scare the hell out of girls. Apparently
1 in 3 women are sexually assaulted. This puts fear into young girls and women in
order to "show how oppressed they are." Although I agree there is a problem in developing
countries, this doesn't reflect North America at all. Anyway, no more space, so thanks.
Sources [1] http://gotopless.org... [2] http://www.livescience.com... [3] http://goaskalice.columbia.edu...
[4] http://www.womenshealthmag.com... [5] http://www.washingtonexaminer.com...