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  • PRO

    This is fairly obvious, especially in modern times. ......

    Feminism should end.

    First of all, Feminism is built off of man-hating. This is fairly obvious, especially in modern times. Two, Feminism lies about problems. The main argument for the reason of feminism is the wage gap. But, this has been disproven MANY times, and if you still don't believe me, than look up the Equal Pay Act of 1963. Three, feminists are very disgusting as of protests. In protests, feminists will put Feces in a balloon and throw it at police. Four, the abortion and my body, my choice argument for feminists is wrong. The baby has its own heartbeat, own face, head, legs, arms, feet, toes, fingers, etc while inside you. It is not your body, rather the BABY'S body. And five, the rape culture and the #metoo movement is mostly faked for money. We have seen this in the accusations on Donald Trump and in the insane amount of accusations on celebrities. And just because I'm 14 and "dumb" doesn't mean I don't pay attention to what's going on in modern day politics.

  • PRO

    First of all, why did you even accept this debate? Second...

    Feminism is cancer

    First of all, why did you even accept this debate? Second of all, the expression "Feminism is cancer" is a metaphor. Learn your figurative language. I would also like to ask the voters not to vote for anyone because the con didn't counter any of my arguments and still hasn't actually said if he/she is a feminist or not. This means that either the con counters my arguments, or I will forfeit this debate and ask the voters not to vote.

  • PRO

    I'd like to debate any feminist out here because it isn't...

    Feminism is not equality

    I'd like to debate any feminist out here because it isn't equality. Feminism has quite the hypocrisy considering men are justhe as oppressed as women but feminists are silent on them but shed millions of tears for women. Con will argue this is false and feminists are targeting equality. Rounds 1) Acceptance 2) Rebuttals 3) Defense Rules 1) No trolling 2) No profanity 3) No ad hominem 4) No forfeiting 5) Use evidence and sources.

  • PRO

    For arguments sake I shall refer to these people as...

    The world needs more feminism

    Sorry this took so long i've been busy. According to google and the oxford dictionary the definition of feminism is "the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes (1) (2). Thus via this very sound definition those who support that women's rights should be equally to that of mens are by definition a feminist even if they choose not to recognise the label. Unfortunately as I shall argue throughout this debate not everyone has this mind set. For arguments sake I shall refer to these people as 'anti-feminists' for this debate. That we know of there is only one cure for world poverty and it can be phased very simply 'the empowerment of women', go to Bolivia, Bangladesh, or Yemen and see (3) (4) (5). Give women control over their reproductive cycle make them not just the beasts of burden and beats of childbearing that they become, give them the right to get a paying job and the floor will rise in that community it has never failed anywhere (3) (4) (5) every time woman's right go up in the third world poverty goes down, against this one solution 'anti-feminism' has turned it's face, the efforts of the 'anti-feminists' in the third world mean more people die not less. And I appeal to my audience, what is more important the ending world poverty? It is one of if not the biggest issue humanity faces at the moment. This is why the world needs more feminism, to save lives. This is my opening argument I look forward to my opponents. Thank you source 1.https://www.google.com.au... 7gK8HC8gePz4CgDw&gws_rd=ssl#q=define+feminism 2. http://www.oxforddictionaries.com... 3. http://en.wikipedia.org... 4.http://www.economist.com... 5. http://en.wikipedia.org...

  • PRO

    Implicit in socialist policies is the definition of...

    feminism is marxism

    Your previous point as I understand it, is that Feminism is socialist but not Marxist. "First, not all socialism is Marxism, there are democratic socialists, Leninists, Maoists et cetera. Feminism may be similar to socialism, but it is not equal in meaning to socialism, and it is very different from Marxism." You further extend this by making Marxism conditional on an advesarial relationship between men and women in this statement: "These ideas aren't intended to hurt men, nor are they intended to make women the ruling class," A second argument is made that my perceptions of what the feminist movement aims at are not the same as Marxists goals in this statement: " they want a) women to be treated the same as men b) as they are mostly liberals, they want liberal ideas, does that surprise you?"" All socialism is Marxism. Socialism as a economic model is conditional on two primary pillars of Marxism; specifically the identification of unequal classes and the use of force to redistribute economic output. Whether that socialism is only 10% of the economy or 100%, it is still the forced redistribution of economic output. Whether you want to define the class as the proletariate, economical disadvantaged, oppressed masses etc. it all boils down to the same thing: specifically that the state forces a transfer of economic output from one class to another. Note that whether or not the firm is worker owned or privately owned is irrelevant as the end result is the same. Let us consider wiki regarding Marxism: While there are many theoretical and practical differences among the various forms of Marxism, most forms of Marxism share: * a belief that capitalism is based on the exploitation[5] of workers by the owners of capital * a belief that people's consciousness of the conditions of their lives reflects the dominant ideology which is in turn shaped by material conditions and relations of production * an understanding of class in terms of differing relations of production, and as a particular position within such relations * an understanding of material conditions and social relations as historically malleable * a view of history according to which class struggle, the evolving conflict between classes with opposing interests, structures each historical period and drives historical change * a belief that this dialectical historical process will ultimately result in a replacement of the current class structure of society with a system that manages society for the good of all, resulting in the dissolution of the class structure and its support (more often than not including the nation state) In every point, feminism is fits the Marxist model. Point one: exploitation of women by men point two: feminist assault on family (read economic specialization necessitated when people have children) Point three: same as point two Point four: Mentioned in my previous post regarding the view of all things being caused by the environment (ie. patriarchy) Point five: Which wave of feminism are we in now? Point Six: Men and women are equal. The 'liberalism' that you mention. Liberalism: The current left are socialist and marxists. They desire the redistribution of wealth and economic output and are willing to use the power of the state to enforce it. To argue that liberals and feminist in particular want equal opportunity is not correct. What they desire is equality of outcomes. This is not the same thing. Implicit in socialist policies is the definition of classes. Redistribution is designed to take from the 'haves' to the 'have nots' to the degree that the current powers are able to maintain political power. In each of the socialist areas I mentioned in my previos post, a 'class' is identified and force is being placed to bear on other classes to provide the resources claimed by the 'disadvantaged class'. Whether a coup is successful without a shot does not mean it is not a coup. You argue there are meaningful differences between Marxism and Marxism light. At the end of the day, I see no differences.

  • PRO

    Todays feminism isn't needed, They have no rights that...

    Today's types of Feminism isn't needed

    Todays feminism isn't needed, They have no rights that they need to fight for, And are establishing a bad name for feminism, As if when some of them think that all men should die and that sort. Women have the same rights as men do, So change my mind.

  • PRO

    Also, we won't talk about undeveloped and developing...

    Feminism is no longer necessary

    Feminism is no longer necessary Or to be precise on the full Resolution: The feminism movement is no longer necessary for the developed countries. Society Debate | Shared BOP | 4 Rounds | 72 Hours Reply | 9.000 Characters | 7 Point Voting Definitions Feminism {1} 1: the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes 2: organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests Limitations This debate is aimed to focus on part two of the given definition and questioning the theoretical legal equality of men and women is not the point here. Also, we won't talk about undeveloped and developing countries as the legal and cultural differences with developed countries would make this debate rather complex ad shift the focus. Sources {1} http://www.merriam-webster.com... Debate Structure In terms of fairness, we’ll start with a round of arguments only and end with a round of rebuttal only. Which means my opponent can choose to have the last word with a first round of acceptance or open the debate immediately and end with a forfeit. I don’t mind pictures as additional media, but please don't include (youtube) videos in your argumentation. They are just a pain, unreliable and sometimes have different copyright issues for different countries. Looking forward to having an enjoyable debate I say welcome and good luck.

CON

  • CON

    Discrimination is defined as "the unjust or prejudicial...

    Feminism

    Feminism is real, of course it is, but the wage gap is a myth. The "wage gap" also known as the earnings gap, takes the incomes of men and women and compares them. Total income, not adjusting for hours worked, jobs worked, or choices made. (1) And what women have to understand is that this is okay. Women are more capable of doing things like taking care of their children, as they are more compassionate, (2) so they take time to spend with their kids. "If there was a woman and a man applying to become an astronaut, they'd most likely choose the man." Do you have proof for this? And even if you do is this discrimination? Discrimination is defined as "the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things, especially on the grounds of race, age, or sex." (3) Is this treatment unfair? Is it unfair to realize that biologically speaking men are in better shape then women on average (4), so a job that needs the highest level of fitness might look for a guy more than a girl? Now let me ask you a question, I am a 6 foot tall white guy, is it discriminatory if I get cut from an NBA team because I tried to play center? No I do not have the physical skills that are required, and that is fair. 1. (http://www.washingtonexaminer.com...) 2. (https://psmag.com...) 3. (https://www.google.com...) 4. (http://www.livescience.com...)

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  • CON

    To advocate for women's rights, but not do the same for...

    Feminism is about equality.

    my opponent has forfeited once again. I will simply reiterate what i said earlier. Feminism does not have a focus on equality. This is mainly derived from the women-centric advocacy. To advocate for women's rights, but not do the same for men, is to increase the rights that women have. The areas that i mentioned (Selective Service/Voting, Domestic Violence, and Rape) are areas wherein women have been given protections, or rights, that were not extended to men. For men, voting is not a right, it is a privilege. Men are liable to be arrested and convicted of a felony, should they not sign up for Selective Service. There is no compulsory public service for women, Feminism has not made it a point to fix this. By virtue of the clause "equality of the sexes" this should be a focus of Feminism. Domestic Violence law is not based upon the fact that a partner is being abusice. Rather, the Duluth Model, from which the VAWA was made, assumes that men are the perpetrator. It should be said that, by virtue of the aforementioned clause of the definition of To advocate for women's rights, but not do the same for men, is to increase the rights that women have. The areas that i mentioned (Selective Service/Voting, Domestic Violence, and Rape) are areas wherein women have been given protections, or rights, that were not extended to men. For men, voting is not a right, it is a privilege. Men are liable to be arrested and convicted of a felony, should they not sign up for Selective Service. There is no compulsory public service for women, Feminism has not made it a point to fix this. By virtue of the clause "equality of the sexes" this should be a focus of Feminism. Domestic Violence law is not based upon the fact that a partner is being abusice. Rather, the Duluth Model, from which the VAWA was made, assumes that men are the perpetrator. It should be said that, by virtue of the aforementioned clause of the definition of There is no compulsory public service for women, Feminism has not made it a point to fix this. By virtue of the clause "equality of the sexes" this should be a focus of Feminism. Domestic Violence law is not based upon the fact that a partner is being abusice. Rather, the Duluth Model, from which the VAWA was made, assumes that men are the perpetrator. It should be said that, by virtue of the aforementioned clause of the definition of feminism, this should not be the case. Abusive relationships should not be tolerated, regardless of the gender of the victim. The fact that men are more capable of damaging their partner is not a viable excuse to ONLY punish men. Legally, it is not possible for a woman to rape a man. The definition of rape requires penetration; consent is not a part of the legal definition of rape. Rape is only a punishible crime when a man is the perpetrator. The gender of the victim is irrelevant. The issue lies in the fact that "consent" is a mind-state. Penetration is an action, and herein lies the problem. I believe i have provided sufficient evidence and support in favor of my position. Given my opponents consecutive forfeitures, and lack of evidence and support, i would also state that i have presented the stronger argument.

  • CON

    Also, since this resolution is about whether or not...

    Feminism is based upon female entitlement to male achievements.

    I accept. Note that if even one strand of feminism or one feminist does not support female entitlement to male achievements, you negate because his argument, by the wording of the resolution, must be all of feminism is based on female entitlement to male achievements. Also, since this resolution is about whether or not feminism is based on female entitlement to male achievements, the burden is on him to prove that this is the central tenet of feminism. If I prove that this is not a central tenet of feminism, the resolution is false and you negate.

  • CON

    Before I pass the round to Pro I shall set some...

    Feminism is Not Helpful in our Society

    I thank albina for letting me debate her in her first debate! I accept the debate. Before I pass the round to Pro I shall set some definitions so we find common ground: Before I pass the round to Pro I shall set some definitions so we find common ground: Feminism: the belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities :The theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes :organized activity in support of women's rights and interests (http://www.merriam-webster.com...) Helpful: of service or assistance : useful (http://www.merriam-webster.com...) our: of or relating to us or ourselves or ourself especially as possessors or possessor, agents or agent, or objects or object of an action (http://www.merriam-webster.com...) Society: a : an enduring and cooperating social group whose members have developed organized patterns of relationships through interaction with one another b : a community, nation, or broad grouping of people having common traditions, institutions, and collective activities and interests (http://www.merriam-webster.com...) (We can do another definition of society if you wish-I'm only assuming this is the definition you meant in the context of the debate. There's just so many!) Rules: Pro's BoP is to affirm the resolution by proving that Feminism is Not Helpful in our Society. Con's BoP is to negate the resolution by proving that Feminism is Helpful in our Society. With that, let the debate begin!

  • CON

    Before feminism even arose, women were still being...

    Feminism Needs to die out

    So far in this whole debate, you haven't given me any proof that men also get physically abused by women, yet I gave you a couple of incidents and examples about what happened to certain women and the difficulties they face. Yes I know that physical violence can happen to anyone regardless of gender, even children can face abuse from the woman and the man. And thankyou for that website, and yes I can't deny that since the proof is there. So are you saying that men do not want superiority too? Do you think it was fair back then women were treated unequally. Now because of the rise of feminism, yes things have definitely improved, but there still is gender gaps worldwide and you can't refute. Before feminism even arose, women were still being treated unequally and still are in some countries, so saying that feminism should be put to an end isn't really gonna make any difference whatsoever. And egalitarian basically means a trend of thought that favors equality for all people. Feminism falls under egalitarianism , and it isn't just a trend of thought, it is a social movement. Women obviously are going to take action because they had enough being treated as housemaids and cooks, and facing violence; And by the way, if women made a movement to stand up for themselves, why haven't men if you're saying that they also face hardships too? Why is it just the women? It's because they don't face hardships as much as women, so they don't complain as much. Thanks for the debate.

  • CON

    You may point to a few well paid women but that doesn't...

    Feminism is and has achieved equality. 3rd wave feminism is oppressive.

    "Feminism has achieved equality. Third wave feminism is oppressive." That's what we're meant to be discussing, remember? Nothing else. Let's debate what we're meant to debate, not some incoherent, off-topic stuff you're spitting at me. We can discuss issues only pertaining to the West if you REALLY want to. Please let's have a rational, open minded debate about this. At the moment you're being very closed minded. Please try to open your mind. This topic has two areas that we can talk about. Area 1: HAS feminism achieved equality? Area 2: IS TWF oppressive? Area 1: Feminist movements in the past have achieved SOME equality. I've given you examples of this in the previous round. However, previous feminist movements have NOT achieved many other areas of equality. For example, only 29% of the UK elected House of Commons are women. Only 18% of Congress are women in the US. That isn't equal. Given the split in the country is roughly 50/50, this is clearly not equal. Feminists aren't saying that women should rule the world. Feminists want women to be equally represented. Ireland had full same-sex marriage before the US. Ireland is a modern country in the modern world; not a backwards one. Inability to get an abortion is a big issue for Irish women. Paid maternity leave in the US is another inequality that feminists clearly haven't achieved. Why should it be the mother who looks after the child at the detriment of her job? Because the sexist culture in the US says that mothers look after the children, fathers make the money. It deprives a mother from being able to make as much money as a man and harms their chances of promotion. This isn't equal. In France, both mothers and fathers get paid parental leave to look after their child. That's more equal. But this doesn't mean feminism has achieved equality. There are many more countries that don't have anything like France. Women might not HAVE to look after the kids, but they often do because there's no alternative. The pay gap exists. You may point to a few well paid women but that doesn't mean all women earn the same. The links above are evidence of that. Even in jobs that are dominated by women, men get paid more. Please download the PDF: http://www.iwpr.org... This compares full-time male/female workers. Please READ IT. More evidence for the blatant inequality between men/women: "Women are far more economically independent and socially autonomous, representing 42% of the UK workforce and 55% of university graduates. YET women are still less likely than men to be associated with leadership positions in the UK: they account for 22% of MPs and peers, 20% of university professors, 6.1% of FTSE 100 executive positions, and 3% of board chairpersons. This stark inequality is consistently reflected in pay gaps, despite the introduction of the Equal Pay Act in 1975. Income inequality has risen faster in the UK than any other OCED country and today women earn on average "140,000 less than men over their working careers." http://www.theguardian.com... These are just areas that have been legislated on. There are many areas that can't be legislated on, such as gendered stereotypes. To say that gendered stereotypes don't exist is false. They exist. Gendered stereotypes limits equality because people assume women should do one thing and men another. "Simply, gender stereotypes are generalizations about the roles of each gender. Gender roles are generally neither positive nor negative; they are simply inaccurate generalizations of the male and female attributes. Since each person has individual desires, thoughts, and feelings, regardless of their gender, these stereotypes are incredibly simplistic and do not at all describe the attributes of every person of each gender." http://www.healthguidance.org... You can find a list of the most common gender stereotypes. To say they don't exist is wrong. They do exist. Here's a list of 15 reasons why we still need feminism focusing on the US. Please read it: http://offthewrittenpath.com... 2 parts I want to draw extra attention to are: Talking about maths and science, there's an unconscious bias against women, probably because they're seen as "male" subjects. "When tests and applications are made anonymous, women score higher than they did if the reviewer knew their gender." http://www.slate.com... And this: Transgender women still lack many legal rights and face biases in society. "In many places, someone can still be fired for merely being transgender." http://www.huffingtonpost.com... Feminism clearly hasn't achieved equality. It's achieved a bit, but still has a long way to go. I've given lots of modern day examples why feminism is still needed and how they haven't reached equality. Let's move to the next area. Area 2: "Third wave feminism is oppressive." Firstly, your understanding of TWF (& feminism generally) is false. It is wrong. You clearly don't know what TWF is. My comments in the last round were mainly to do with TWF. If you think they were irrelevant, you clearly don't understand TWF. The ideas behind feminism CAN change as different people emphasise different ideas. Let me try and inform you. Here's what http://everydayfeminism.com... has to say about TWF: "Bottom line, the goal is homogenous: Feminism aims for gender equality within a currently patriarchal society." TWF is about allowing us to be comfortable being who we are, with our own individual desires and interests. A woman can be feminine, but she shouldn't have to be. She can also be masculine. It is the woman's personal choice. TWF tries to get women (and men) to see that it's their own choice how to act. TWF tries to get people to understand that no one is bound by gendered stereotypes that limit how they can act. Feminism isn't outdated. TWF focuses on different ideas within feminism - problems in the real world. We don't use a different "-ism" for it because it's still feminism. It still has the same core beliefs - that women (and thereby men, too) should be equal with one another. It holds the beliefs that both sexes and all genders should be equal. Simone de Beauvoir said: "A woman is not born, she is made." It is societal influences that feed into a female's mind that tells her to be feminine and conform to the gender stereotype that fits a "woman". While I'm not sure that you'll understand this, I hope you try to understand that societal influences effect how a person behaves. These influences make a person think that "As a woman, I should be at home looking after the kids" or think "As a man, I should be the one earning money". Just because there's no law saying women must be the stay-at-home parent, society deems it so. EXAMPLE: the US doesn't have a law that someone must leave a tip. However, if you don't leave a tip in a restaurant, you will be socially stigmatised. SIMILARLY, if a woman doesn't act like a woman, she will be stigmatised. TWF wants to try and break down social norms and gender stereotypes to allow people to act and behave how they like. They want freedom. Not oppression. You haven't given ANY examples of how TWF is oppressive. You gave one woman who tried to defend gay rights activists. That's not oppressive, that's liberating for the gay rights activists. The other example was of a woman who banned cisgender men. The woman wasn't a TWF. You seem to think that any female person is a TWF. They are not. A person can be female without having to be a feminist. Please give relevant, rational responses. The previous rounds you did not. Please do so now.

  • CON

    Firstly, I would like to address feminism in a way which...

    Feminism Isn't Actually for Women's Rights.

    I am glad to take this debate. Thank you for the opportunity, and good luck. Firstly, I would like to address Firstly, I would like to address feminism in a way which is comprehensive, so I will begin with some opening arguments. (1) Feminism was a movement launched with the intent of ending stigmas women faced. (1a) During the great depression in America, women faced harsh gender biases when attempting to find work. Women who attempted to attain employment, economic success, or even self-dependence, were often accused of thievery and stealing opportunities from their male counterparts. According to the article, "Women And The Great Depression" by Susan Ware, ""Women who sought relief or paid employment risked public scorn or worse for supposedly taking jobs and money away from more deserving men." The previous quote does in fact prove that women faced stigmas exclusive to them, and thus those stigmas gave them difficulty when trying to find employment. This therefore proves the need for feminism. (1b) Feminism has accomplished many many things for the sake of women; ranging from reducing gender pay inequities, granting women the right to the suffrage, allowing them to wear clothes, participate in the entertainment industry, and even has allowed them to serve in government positions. According to an article by the History Network, "For almost 100 years, women (and men) had been fighting to win that right [suffrage]: They had made speeches, signed petitions, marched in parades and argued over and over again that women, like men, deserved all of the rights and responsibilities of citizenship." Again, this is evidence that feminism, a movement which was initiated to advocate for the escalation of women's statuses in society to be equal to men's, does in fact benefit women. (1c) The very definition of feminism is also proof that feminism operates predominately in the interest of women who face gender stigmas, however, it does also operate in favor of both: "1 : the theory of the political, economic, and social equality of the sexes 2 : organized activity on behalf of women's rights and interests" Sources Cited: (1a) https://www.gilderlehrman.org... (1b) http://www.history.com... (1c) http://www.merriam-webster.com... I think that this is an appropriate size/length for an opening argument, I will therefore hand the floor over to my opponent.

  • CON

    This is because it is not intended to. ... The reason...

    Feminism is no longer about gender equality

    Although we are at odds over the nature of feminism, we both agree that an ultimate goal of equality between the sexes is paramount and deplore the rise of misandry amongst so-called feminists. To conclude, then. Feminism is indeed about women. It is about the affirmation that women are not inferior to men; that women should be equal to men. My opponent has narrowed his definition of feminists from the sum total of feminists to Western feminists; and then from Western feminists to 'the majority of feminist organizations, academic feminists, and feminist media'. It is unsurprising that examination of this subset of feminists reveals misandry; few would undertake a dedicated career in feminism without passion, and thus a tendency to radicalism or even extremism; this is hardly an unbiased strata. This, however, does not apply to all feminists; as my previous statistics revealed, the majority of women who consider themselves feminist support their own gender in claiming equality as opposed to inferiority. They do not support misandry. An overwhelmingly female society of course cannot support or equally represent men. This is because it is not intended to. Feminism counteracts misogyny; Masculism counteracts misandry. Feminism is as much about gender equality as Masculism, and vice versa; both are movements intended to counterbalance inequality based on gender. Anyone can be both Masculist and Feminist. The reason that single-gender organisations can be genuinely essential, however, are twofold. First, emotional support. No matter how sympathetic the parties involved are, there are some experiences that simply do not cross genders well. Especially with sexual issues, there is real discomfort involved. This is why it is possible to request a male or female doctor; or a male or female counsellor. Then as well, few women understand on an instinctive level the stigmas, demands and assumptions the male psyche labours under; the reverse is also true. Second, self-representation. To combat inequality, to organise a response representative of those suffering that inequality affirms the purpose of those doing so; in effect, to say, 'We are doing this ourselves because we are capable of doing so.' Failure to do this has undermined many causes. The empowerment of a gender involves demonstrating that it's members do not require the other gender to oversee their political movements. Closing remarks, then. Feminism counters female oppression; Masculism counters male oppression. A society can suffer from both; indeed, both are present in varying doses in Western society. This does not make the individual gender movements any less valid. Feminism is and remains a movement intended to restore balance where inequality for women exists; the presence of misandry and inequality for men does not violate it's validity or necessity.

  • CON

    The evidence to my argument is publicly available on a...

    Is third wave feminsim still feminism

    While there maybe certain "labels" of feminism i disagree with your statement that feminism is still the same. The evidence to my argument is publicly available on a majority of pro feminism YouTube channels and blog posts. There are women that literally belive that eliminating all men is the best way possible to create a "equal" world. There still is real feminism left in the world but there are very few women doing things to combat the kinks women face everyday. But like i said very few as to the majority is sitting around the buzzfeed offices complaining about video games or pushing fat acceptance or other sjw/liberal ideals. Reguarding the wage gap, i like that you pulled up actual statistics of men and women working the same job and position. But my counter argument is that 5 to 8% doesn't stop women from becoming leaders of the household. If in a well paying job that woman had to work her butt off for as much as the man did to get there that 5 to 8% becomes small as the woman can still provide for the man and the house aswell the kids.