Modern Feminism is Necessary
Well it's unfortunate that this debate is coming to an end, but I had fun. Finally
a decent debate with a feminist. So thanks :) But let's get back to business. Gender
Roles I hate this term, and I hate how people want it abolished even more. Men and
women are biologically different, and tend to do things that most of their gender
tend to do. Nobody is "forcing" men or women to do something that most men or women,
respectively, do. The reason we slightly encourage it is because that's what makes
everybody happy. Almost every single woman I know would rather stay home and raise
her child than continue working and stay away from her child, while it's the exact
opposite with almost every man I know. Now I know this is anecdotal, so here's a graph
from a feminist blog [1] that tries to spin this into something else, but the numbers
don't lie. Women would rather stay at home or work part time even if money weren't
an issue, whereas men would rather work full time. THIS IS NOT A BAD THING. It just
shows that women PREFER one thing, while men PREFER another. I understand that this
is a little bit off-topic, but it's still a non-issue that feminists like to bring
up and claim they're being mistreated, while it's simply women's choices to do something
over men. Feminism is attempting to stop women from doing something they want to do, because they're
terrified of the term "gender role." Nobody can do what the majority of their gender
does because... well, no good reason. Alright, back to sports. You don't want to stop
pushing boys to be athletic. That's great, neither do I. I'd like to take this a step
further and say that boys and girls are equally represented in physical education
classes, and neither one is currently being pushed harder than another. Although men
tend to be biologically more athletic than women, this isn't even looked at anymore.
So if anything, there are no gender roles when it comes to school and physical education.
In addition, I see that you accept the fact that boys are picked on when they aren't
athletic enough. So I have a solution. Instead of throwing feminism at it, and expecting every single person on Earth to "find the error in their ways,"
how about as well as teaching people to be nice (something that doesn't require feminism), we ensure boys (and girls) are athletic enough to either a) not be picked on, or
b) stand up for themselves if they are. To say "with feminism, everyone is happy" is unfortunately an incredibly unrealistic and impossible-to-achieve
goal. Again, one more reason I believe feminism to be detrimental. Much like my argument about the slutwalk being detrimental to
the safety of women by taking all responsibility off women, feminism (as you'd like to see it) is detrimental to boys, by taking all responsibility off
them to stay in shape and be able to defend themselves. Feminists assume that by saying
"hey, read about feminism," all bad people in the world will magically disappear. This is unfortunately not true, and should not be taught. "Not All Feminists" Have you heard of the hashtag #NotAllMen? The hashtag is feminists'
way of making fun of men who simply point out that not every man acts the way some
women and feminists believe they do, which is a valid point. But feminists have decided
to chastise men for simply pointing out that the woman/feminist is wrong when she
makes a generalization about men. And now you're doing the same. Let me take an excerpt
from a feminist article saying how ridiculous saying "not all men" is, and replace
that phrase with "not all feminists." [2] It's defensive bullsh*t that doesn't really
do anything but prove the bearer of Not All Feminists is more concerned with saving
face for themselves than, you know, actually acknowledging the concern that another
person is expressing. I understand that not every feminist hates men, or not every
feminist doesn't understand the statistics of average earnings or sexual assaults
or typical education by gender etc. I understand that not all feminists are the same,
and not all are bad. However... the face of feminism is what is most commonly seen. So when your (possibly your) good friend Julie Bindel,
who is pretty popular in the feminist community, with 13,000 followers on Twitter
[4], claims men should be put in concentration camps [3], it says something. And it
doesn't matter that not all feminists agree with her, what matters is there are a
large number of feminists (and normal people) do agree with her, and non-feminists
take note of that. You can say "not all feminists," and I'd happily agree with you,
but keep in mind, when men did the same thing, about their gender even, not even their
ideology, they were ridiculed and chastised by the very people you share an ideology
with for doing so. "All those women are radicals" It's very easy to just say "see
all those examples you provided of feminists doing detrimental things to the whole
of society? Yeah they don't count." Unfortunately though, we are talking about the
necessity of feminism, and when those women are a huge part of feminism, I can't do anything but bring them up to explain how unnecessary feminism is, or at the very least, how poorly tens of thousands of feminists represent the
movement. With all that being said, why is it so hard to not call yourself an egalitarian?
When you agree with me that there are a lot of feminists who are just bad people,
for lack of better words, wouldn't it make more sense to associate yourself with a
group that is not known for having radicals, and is known for helping women and men
equally? Just a thought. "There will always be men who rape." This is true. And you,
one feminist, disagreeing with practically the foundation of the entire current feminist
movement (the slut walk), unfortunately has very little impact on the entire feminist
movement and the necessity of it. Feminists only help women I'm glad you can see that
there aren't any feminist groups that try to help men. So this contradicts what you
said earlier to a degree, although you did say helped and not helping, so that's fair
enough. However I have a big problem with your next statement. "...the examples you
gave were not very good ones and not really issues that need protesting for." The
examples I gave are as follows, word for word: "Men are more likely to be murdered,
assaulted, robbed, homeless, commit suicide, get injured at work, and many more."
If you think rape is an issue that needs addressing, and getting killed isn't, then
you fall into the category of why feminism is detrimental to society. Because you're doing two things. You're a) saying a problem
that primarily affects women is more important to address than an issue that affects
both men and women, and b) you're saying rape is the most serious type of crime. Now
I'm not doubting the severity of rape, but my main point is that you (and almost every
other feminist) claims they're for equality, yet only protests against the issue that
primarily affects women. Not the issues that equally affect both men and women. But
like you said, feminism is feminism for a reason, and does only combat issues that primarily affect women. However like
I've said before, feminism and feminists are doing this in the wrong way. Female Privilege So because this is
my last round, I'd like to bring up female privilege. I'm not doing this because I
want to show that women have it better than men, I'd like to simply show that there
is no need for feminism, as women aren't treated worse than men, aren't oppressed, aren't held back, etc.
I don't have a hell of a lot of room left, so I'll bring up some major points and
provide links and pictures so support the ones I haven't covered. From an early age,
men will be told to never hit a woman, yet if a woman were to hit a man, she would
not receive even close to the social penalties that a man would if he were to hit
her. Women are not required by law to join the military draft if the country were
to go to war. Women will receive more help when they are in need, or even when they
are not, than men. If a disaster were to strike, women would be among the first to
be saved, giving the impression that a woman's life is more valuable than a man's.
The social pressure is on a man to pay for the majority of things a couple does together.
Any accusation a woman makes on a man will be taken seriously right off the bat and
will, at the very least, be investigated. The qualifications for women to join the
military is less than that of men - something arguably detrimental to women's safety.
If a woman doesn't get a job, it's not because she isn't good enough, it's because
of sexism. If a man doesn't get a job, it's because he isn't good enough. A woman
will most likely not be charged with or accused of sexual harassment if she were to
act inappropriately toward a man, whereas a man could easily lose his job and reputation
if he were simply accused of doing the same toward a woman. Here's a few more - [5],
[6] And you're trying to say that feminism, a movement suggesting that women aren't treated as well as men, and is trying to
"grant women equality," is necessary? I'm sorry, but looking at the above lists, and
taking into account the lack of evidence supporting any feminist claims, it's pretty
hard to say women aren't treated equally to men. It's pretty hard to say a movement
is needed to provide equal treatment for women. It's pretty hard to say women are
at a disadvantage. It's pretty hard to say feminism is necessary. Thanks! Sources [1] http://sites.psu.edu... [2] http://jezebel.com... [3] http://www.infowars.com...
[4] https://twitter.com... [5] https://mensresistance.wordpress.com... [6] http://www.feministcritics.org...